Heart VS Head

Have you ever felt that you know what you really want but then your heart chooses another thing? Feeling that you should listen to your heart and not your head? Always confused on which to decide because you're afraid that if you listen to your heart you might end up heartbroken; or if you listen to your head, you might missed out a great opportunity?

If up to this point you don't know what am I talking about you can close this window...

You see, we are all humans.... We all have feelings, sometimes you will get very desperate in need for attention or maybe that other party's attention. You will have that kind of feeling where you think you can just conquer the world with that feeling. And as time goes on, you will think its getting great between the both of you. But you need to face the fact, this is your heart, telling you that it's worth a shot because the heart makes decision based on feelings. On the other hand, the head makes some sort of calculations, critical thinking and predicting what will happen if u do this or if you do that. 

You see, the head and the heart are like husband and wife... The heart = wife, head = husband. The wife, gets to go crazy and all... Doing emotional stuff without knowing what's coming towards them. Where as the brain, the husband must remain sane at all times. The wife gets to go insane, but the husband needs to know whats the right thing to do and make decisions based on analyzing and evaluations. Guiding the wife to the right direction by pulling her back when she is lost. Because you yourself, will be making the final decision whether to make things happen or leave it alone. We as humans need the help of this loving husband and wife to help us make decisions. 

If, people only decides to go with the head, we will be doing many plain stuff and our life won't be interesting. If we only follow what the heart tells us, we will end up in situations that we never thought we would end up in. Take our parents for example, both of them having different opinions and how they view things. If you only follow the mother side for example, or being forced to follow the mother's opinions. Yes, we will be having a good time doing what our mother tell's us to do, with that we also will have a chance to end up in a position where we wouldn't want to be in the first place. If we follow the father's side, we will quite enjoy our life, but will not have any interesting things happen along the way.

This is why, we must always make decisions after it has gone through the husband and the wife. I mean there is also another party, 6th sense or some might say something inside you knows its right. Well, that might be a good source to listen or might be a bad idea but will sound good in the first place.

Peace Out... I am not sure what am I writing..but suddenly feel like writing

Friendzone

Many people are getting friendzoned more often than i thought... For guys, some of them called it an 'investment' where its a free world and he can choose to 'invest' in any investment he wants. As for girls, it is damn obvious that it is the thing that guys hate the most, the 'friendzone'.

Although i might say that guys saying girls are 'investments' are abit harsh... But what to do? Girls do not have a harsh way to define a guy-who-they-only-realize-there-when-they-need-them... 'Investments from guys are not all bad, everybody can see who they want to whenever they want. Its just that whether the chance of being together is high or not...

As for girls, they put guys in the friendzone where they own-self knows that the guy will not have a single shit fucks of chance to be together with the girl. And that damn girl knows it very well, but what to do? Attention from one guy is just not enough to satisfy them. They would want the whole world's attention and might still wanting for more... 

My views are applicable to both guys and girl, just so you all don't think that i only side the guys

And to those people who are in the friendzone...

Those people are not worth your time, you can spend more time on other things such as family or friends, even a dog is more worth your time than wasting time to become a backup eh?

No worries, they will come crawling back to ya anyways... 

Peace Out

Nobody can force me to do what i want. 

Like those movies saying, 'nobody can find me, UNLESS i wanted to be found'

For me, nobody can put me in the friendzone, it is me, voluntarily wanted to go in there to be there for you...

It is my choice whether i wanted to have the 'boyfriend' status or the 'bestfriend' status... If im just sick of everything, I will just leave, as easy as that....nobody can keep me there.

Bottom of the food chain

Sup bitches.... I know its not a great time to blog now at this time because assignments are due soon and I'm one month away from my finals... As long as i have time i will try not to procrastinate, if not my blog looks dead...

So one day my family and I went to a vegetarian restaurant to have dinner. That was the second time i had my dinner there. Well my past experience was, slow food and the worst of all...WRONG ORDER!!! Well my first time i was still calm and think that its normal for restaurants to take the wrong order.... So i was ok with that on that day...

Honestly i didn't like that restaurant one bit...it has very little variety of food, lets say besides the economy rice, they have like around 10 other food...spaghetti, fried rice etc.... I dont hate or disrespect those family who open up a business and are all related like cousins and uncles and stuff...but this is way too much.... IDK why that particular day I easily got pissed, dont know what happened... I placed my order when the uncle came and took the order.. As usual it take them a long time for the food to be served... The first dish to come was my mom's. She ordered spaghetti if im not mistaken, but when the dish came...its another kind of spaghetti... My parents were kind enough to eat that plate, they are ok with the restaurant messed up their order.... After a few mouths of spaghetti my mom ate, the waiter suddenly came up with a spegethi that my mom ordered...My parents were like think they ate the wrong plate although they served it wrong. They decide to pay for the food that THE RESTAURANT SERVED WRONGLY... We told the waiter about the wrong order and will pay for the wrong order... The waiter, an old uncle thank us for doing so.... For another 15 minutes my siblings's food came and following by my dad's. Maybe this was the reason i got pissed off. I waited so long for the food and nothing came... I went to ask the counter and saying that my food haven't arrive yet... IDK if he did get what i said or act like he did listen and understand...

After a few minutes, a waiter came up to our table with the food that i didnt order. My parents said if they served the wrong food, its ok...just eat it... I was damn furious...Why the fuck should i eat the food that i didnt order? Then what's the point of ordering food if the restaurant will be screwing up the menu? So i waited until every single one of my family finish their food... I was like fuck this shit, lets just pay and GTFO... After my dad paid, he told the cashier to cancel my food so that we wont be paying for it... SUDDENLY! A waiter came out from the kitchen with my food... I was like are you fucking kidding me??!! 30 minutes + only you can get my food out? WTF! Everybody else in the restaurant was staring at me cause i talked damn loudly, and almost cursing everywhere.... The waiter was like sorry sorry...i stared back at the uncle..no fucks given when u mess with my food.... then i simply eat...leaving a small portion left... I wanted to call the waiter to take back the food instead and not paying for the food... But my dad insisted on me finishing the food...

All night he say that we shouldn't be so calculative... We have food, we should be thankful.. Yeah I M thankful for the food i get and for everything else... But at that moment, my point of view was. Just because you guys open a vegetarian restaurant and mostly people who come in here are kind and generous... Doesnt mean you guys can take that for granted... Just because those kind and generous customers do not complain, you guys do not need to change anything... Its the real world come on! Nobody's gonna give face to you because you are this and that! You can't perform, you're gone.... Bankrupt or whatever i dont care... If so many people sympathize everybody, nobody needs to work hard any more. Everybody will be waiting to be sympathized... This world is competitive, i dont care what you are or who you are.... You're not doing a good job, you're gone!  There's no 'owh you need to think from their perspectives...walk a mile in their shoes' bullshit anymore... When you're at the bottom of the food chain, you...will...be..eliminated! End of story...



Peace out!