Hi

A good friend of mine told me something that i thought it is logical and meaningful.... First off, you see some  couples argue after a few months of a relationship... Why? From my guessing, it is because of they are not themselves when they are with their other half... Months pass by and either one of the couple is lazy of "acting" and shows their true color...

So... What my friend told me was... If we want to be normal and be accepted by our other half, we should start being ourselves from day 1 when we decide to chase after him/her. Lets say if from day1, we are macho, gentleman, patient, clean and stuffs... But actually we are not. For some situations, couples can get over the problem easily either they have a strong relationship or the problem is not a big deal for them. We always want to be the best in front of our partner... Sometimes we aim too good beyond what we can do.... A quick example... For my opinion, if from the day you start to like her, you carry her books in school everytime... And 1 day you two are couples... You need to hold her book everyday, which is probably not you... I know couples out there do not mind holding books... But just that if 1 day you are lazy of "holding books" and do not want to, your other half might think there is something wrong somewhere... I think although this is a bad example, but still i think you guys can get my meaning...

Couples should be able to accept each other's flaws... I still think that they should first accept the worst side of their other half. By doing do, only they are qualified to see the better side of them. Some people might leave after seeing the bad side... But for my opinion, if they can't even handle the bad side, we shouldn't even show them what we are capable of... Owh well... Gues that's that...gotta do my assignments...



Its heart breaking to see good girls being treated awfully, they deserve better but maybe its not their time yet...

Peace Out!!