relationships~~

DAMN...can you leave me alone? why when i am ready for a relationship...then i cant get any....but when i am frustrated...relationship comes to me....what to you want from me man? aint my life suffering enough because of you...in my life..is it true that when you want something...you must earn it yourself? and it wont be easy?but when you dont want it...it wants you...so i am damn confused...should we fight for our good relationship? or should we wait for it to come to us?